sunt foarte tare. era bancul ala .. cum salvezi o femeie de la viol ? o convingi.
de dimineatza am primit un mail cu o captura de ecran si subiect: trebuie sa faci tu.
aaaaaaa, stage 2: why me ?
scriu deci, bineinteles, se face, cand pot sa dobor serverul pentru a il abuza.
mail inapoi: pai nu stim, cat timp ai nevoie de el ?
mailul meu: depinde, in tot peisajul asta ce ne inconjoara asa ceva nu a fost facut niciodata, deci depinde, poate sa dureze de la 2 ore la 2 zile (si cand spun 2 zile sunt optimist)
mailul inapoi: ne-am gandit, nu mai e nevoie sa facem aceasta operatiune.
laser frate. o alta zi minunata, astept cu drag mailurile de marti.
sambata plec acasa .. azi de dimineatza m-am trezit si asta era primul lucru in capul meu (primul era .. traiesc, dupa care .. ah, plec acasa = supernoroc) .. esti pe ultima suta, esti in acea saptamana, poti pleca acasa la sfarsitul ei, numara in kilu tau zilele si zambeste cu un dinte in plus pentru fiecare zi ce trece.
1 - Denial - "this can't be happening to me", looking for the former spouse in familia places, or if it is death, setting the table for the person or acting as if they are still in living there. No crying. Not accepting or even acknowledging the loss.
2 - Anger - "why me?", feelings of wanting to fight back or get even with spouse of divorce, for death, anger at the deceased, blaming them for leaving.
3 - Bargaining - bargaining often takes place before the loss. Attempting to make deals with the spouse who is leaving, or attempting to make deals with God to stop or change the loss. Begging, wishing, praying for them to come back.
4 - Depression - overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.
5 - Acceptance - there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. You have to accept the loss, not just try to bear it quietly. Realization that it takes two to make or break a marriage. Realization that the person is gone (in death) that it is not their fault, they didn't leave you on purpose. (even in cases of suicide, often the deceased person, was not in their right frame of mind) Finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing. Our goals turn toward personal growth. Stay with fond memories of person.
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